Before You Say I Do

 Before saying "I do," it's crucial to assess your compatibility with your partner, understand your shared values and goals, ensure financial stability, take sufficient time to truly get to know each other, openly communicate about important topics, and be cautious if in a long-distance relationship. 

Key points to consider before marriage:

• Compatibility:

  Evaluate if you align on core values, life goals, and how you handle challenges; love alone may not sustain a marriage. 
• Financial stability:

  Discuss your financial situation openly, including debt and spending habits, to ensure you are on the same page. 
• Time and getting to know each other:

  Don't rush into marriage; spend significant time together in various situations to understand each other's true personalities and behaviors. 
• Communication skills:

  Practice open and honest communication, including discussing difficult topics and being able to actively listen to your partner. 
• Shared goals and vision:

  Discuss your future aspirations regarding family, career, and lifestyle to see if they align. 
• Long-distance considerations:

  If you're in a long-distance relationship, be extra cautious and ensure you have a solid foundation before committing. 
• Appreciation and support:

  Actively appreciate your partner's strengths and be willing to support them through challenges. 
• Individual growth:

  Consider how you will continue to grow as individuals within the relationship.