Meet Dr. I. D. Samuel

Rev. Dr. I. D. Samuel JP is not merely a man of God, but a towering luminary whose presence radiates both paternal warmth and spiritual profundity. A father to many, a meticulous teacher of the Word, a discerning prophet, and a general in the kingdom, he embodies the quintessence of divine stewardship.

Endowed with uncommon benevolence, he listens not just with his ears but with the depth of his heart, dispensing wisdom and compassion in equal measure. His philanthropic spirit transcends material benevolence, for he enriches lives with knowledge, hope, and vision. In the vast landscape of ministry, he stands as a colossus—unshaken, resolute, and magnificently relevant.

His footprints traverse continents as he journeys across the world, proclaiming the gospel of Christ with fire, enforcing deliverance with authority, and rekindling hope in countless lives. This rare dimension of global relevance has earned him the fitting appellation—“The Primate"

MEN OF HIS CALIBER ARE NOT CONFINED TO DATES, BUT ARE ETERNALLY DEFINED BY THEIR INDELIBLE IMPACT UPON GENERATIONS.

He is Called to raise a generation on fire, mandated to steer men into the fullness of Christ. 

I. D. Samuel PhD is an uncommon author, and has written and authored 12 bestselling books, and has co-authored over 30 books so far.

He is the PFN Youth secretary plateau state, the assistant secretary, YOUTH CAN Plateu state, Vice president, Frontline ministers network Nigeria. The General secretary of Bridging the gap international, a reputable global ministers network based in the USA.

Holds:

- Certificate in Hotel and hospitality management 

- Certificate in business consultancy

- Certificate in strategic leadership 

- Certificate in Marriage counselling

- Diploma in practical ministry

- Diploma in Public administration 

- NCE in biology/PES

- B.A Theology 

- Msc Human Resource management 

- Msc Conflict management and peace studies 

- PhD Conflict management and peace studies from the prestigious ORAL Roberts University; Tulsa Oklahoma USA.

He is a father and a husband of one wife, and his wife is a female. He is a love and relationship therapist, a leader per excellence and a business consultant.

He was a lecturer with the Plateau state polytechnic Jos/Guidance and counselling master of the polytechnic Jos campus, presently lecturing with the Erudite University Jos.

He is the founding president of Shabach Yeshua Global, a fast growing ministry in Nigeria, situated in Jos.

The word of God is in his mouth.

We are privileged to have him in our generation.

Hallelujah!!!

Phone: +2347038354762

Email: godscityprimate@gmail.com

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ENOUGH OF CHRISTIAN GENOCIDE IN NIGERIA

A WAKE UP CALL FROM I. D. SAMUEL, A DOCTOR OF CONFLICT MANAGEMENT AND PEACE STUDIES.

To My Fellow Nigerians 🇳🇬

Let’s be honest with ourselves no emotion, no sentiment, just truth.

Truly Christians are being killed endlessly in Nigeria 

Yes, Muslims have also been killed in this country. Nobody denies that. We’ve lost innocent lives in mosques, villages, and marketplaces from Zamfara to Borno. But let’s stop twisting facts: who are the killers?

Are they Christians? No.

Are they Jews? No.

Are they Buddhists? No.

Are they Muslims? YES

They are Jihadists extremists who hide under the name of Islam to slaughter both Christians and Muslims who disagree with their madness.

So when Christians cry out that they are being massacred because of their faith, let Muslims stop rushing to say “Muslims are victims too.” That’s not the point. Christians are being targeted in the name of religion. Muslims are being killed for refusing to join in the madness. Both are victims but the ideology behind the killing wears an ISLAMIC Jihadist face, not a Christian one.

No Christian has ever killed a Muslim in this country in the name of Jesus (pbuh). But how many times have we seen mobs shouting “Allahu Akbar” while burning churches and murdering innocent people? From Borno to Jos Plateau, from Kaduna to Yola these things happened, and we all know it.

Remember Deborah Yakubu in Sokoto?

She was lynched in broad daylight and many Muslims, including lawyers, defended her killers. That was the moment Nigeria lost its moral compass. Instead of defending justice, we defended evil because the victim was a Christian and the killers were Muslims.

That’s why the world no longer takes your defense seriously. We can’t claim to be victims while defending the monsters among you.

Until Muslims in Nigeria openly condemn and fight Jihadists with the same energy they defend Islam, this bloodshed will never end. Every time you justify or stay silent, you’re empowering those who destroy our image and faith.

Let’s stop being hypocritical. This isn’t about defending religion it’s about saving our humanity. Islam means peace, but too many people have turned it into a weapon.

We must unite as believers and Christians against the Jihadists who have hijacked our country. Enough is enough. Silence is no longer an option.

Before you start dancing Shekau Shekau that China warn USA to allow Nigeria deal with their internal affairs themselves i just want to let you know China IS TOO SMALL TO WARN U.S in this matter.

Permit me to remind you, Iran that have military alliance with China and Russia, Trump entered there a few month ago and blew off thier nuclear power plant that is about 30 fit bellow the earth, it was after they finished thier operation and had left Iran knew what happened and before the event they first ceased/captured Iran's air space for days.

Where was China and Russia after all these happened? They were mute because they know thier mate.

THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA IS THE PRESIDENT OF THE WORLD 

PRESIDENT DONALD TRUMP WANTS TO WIPE 

OUT TERRORISTS AND TERRORISM IN NIGERIA, AND YOU 

ARE ANGRY! WHY ARE YOU ANGRY? ARE YOU A TERRORIST OR A SPONSOR OF TERRORISM?????

WE ARE MANY! 

WE ARE ROYALTY!

WE ARE WINNING!!!

FROM GLORY TO GLORY! 

NO RETREAT NO SURRENDER!

TAKE A LOOK AT THE RECORD BELOW 

If we loved this nation as we claim, these wouldn't have happened:

🩸 Feb 2000: Yelwa Massacre (Kebbi) – 78 Christians killed  

🩸 2000: Kaduna Riots – Over 1,000 Christians killed  

🩸 Nov 2002: Miss World Riots (Kaduna) – ~250 Christians killed  

🩸 2009–2011: Early Boko Haram Attacks – Hundreds of Christians targeted  

🩸 Dec 24–25, 2010: Christmas Attacks (Maiduguri & Jos) – 38+ killed  

🩸 Dec 25, 2011: Christmas Day Shootings (Damaturu, Potiskum) – 45 killed  

🩸 Mar 2012: Jos Church Bombings – 38 killed  

🩸 Jun 2012: Kano Church Bombings – ~40 killed  

🩸 Dec 25, 2012: Christmas Eve Attacks – 27 shot dead  

🩸 Feb 2014: Federal Government College Massacre (Yobe) – 59 Christian boys burned alive  

🩸 Apr 2014: Chibok Abductions – 276 Christian girls kidnapped  

🩸 Jun 2014: Gwoza Attacks (Borno) – 90+ Christians killed  

🩸 Jun 5, 2022: Owo Church Massacre (Ondo) – 41+ worshippers gunned down during Pentecost Mass  

🩸 May 12, 2022: Deborah Samuel – Christian student stoned and burned alive in Sokoto for alleged blasphemy  

🩸 2015–Ongoing: Fulani Herdsmen Raids (Middle Belt) – Thousands killed (e.g., 800+ in 2018)  

🩸 Dec 23–26, 2023: Plateau Christmas Attacks – 140+ massacred in 26 villages  

🩸 Apr 2025: Hurti Attacks (Plateau) – 56 killed, 5,000 displaced  

🩸 Apr 2025: Sankera Massacre (Benue) – 72+ hacked to death  

🩸 Apr 13, 2025: Zike Village (Plateau) – 56 (incl. 15 children) killed  

🩸 May 2025: Benue Attacks – 36 killed by herders  

🩸 Jun 13–14, 2025: Yelewata Massacre (Benue) – 280 slaughtered  

🩸 Jun 2025: Gwer West (Benue) – 20+ killed  

🩸 Aug 2025: Aye-Twar Church (Plateau) – Church razed, multiple killed  

🩸 Oct 2025: Barkin Ladi (Plateau) – Dozens killed in raids  

🩸 Jan–Nov 2025: 7,000+ Christians killed (Intersociety)

WHO IS A NARCISSIST? BY DR. I. D. SAMUEL

A narcissistic personality refers to a pattern of thinking, feeling, and behaving where a person has an inflated sense of self-importance, a constant need for admiration, and little regard for others’ feelings.

In psychology, extreme cases are diagnosed as Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). But many people show narcissistic traits without having the full disorder.

⚠️ Common Traits of a Narcissistic Personality

1. Grandiosity – Exaggerates achievements, expects to be recognized as superior without real accomplishments.

2. Need for Admiration – Constantly seeks praise, validation, or attention.

3. Lack of Empathy – Struggles to understand or care about others’ feelings.

4. Sense of Entitlement – Believes they deserve special treatment.

5. Exploitativeness – Uses others to achieve personal goals.

6. Arrogance – Looks down on others, often belittling or mocking them.

7. Fragile Self-Esteem – Appears confident, but is very sensitive to criticism or rejection.

👫 In Relationships

They may love-bomb (shower affection at first) but later devalue and criticize their partner.

They often manipulate using guilt, gaslighting, or silent treatment.

Relationships feel one-sided — the partner gives, while the narcissist takes.

They may become controlling or jealous when not the center of attention.

🌱 Root Causes

Psychologists suggest narcissism can develop from:

Childhood neglect or excessive criticism.

Over-pampering or being told they’re superior.

Insecurity masked by arrogance.

🛑 Effects on Partners

Being with a narcissistic partner can lead to:

Loss of self-esteem.

Constant self-doubt (due to gaslighting).

Imotional exhaustion from walking on eggshells.

Feeling unloved or unappreciated.

✅ How to Handle a Narcissistic Personality

1. Set Boundaries – Be firm about what you will not accept.

2. Avoid Power Struggles – They thrive on control and arguments.

3. Protect Your Self-Esteem – Don’t let their criticism define your worth.

4. Seek Support – Talk to trusted friends, mentors, or a counselor.

5. Know When to Walk Away – Some narcissists don’t change; leaving may be healthiest.

👉 In short:

A narcissistic personality is charming at first but can become toxic and draining over time. Recognizing the signs helps protect yourself and make wise relationship choices.

🔎 Life Partner Checklist - Dr. I. D. Samuel

1. Values and Beliefs

Do we share the same core values (faith, honesty, family, money, integrity)?

Do we agree on what is right/wrong in major areas of life?

Can I respect and live with their beliefs, even if they differ slightly from mine?

2. Emotional Maturity

Do they take responsibility when wrong, or do they always shift blame?

How do they handle stress, anger, or disappointment?

Are they willing to compromise and work through challenges without walking away?

3. Respect and Kindness

Do they respect my opinions, dreams, and boundaries?

Do they treat me kindly in private and in public?

How do they treat people “beneath” them (drivers, waiters, workers, etc.)?

4. Trustworthiness

Do I feel safe leaving my phone, secrets, or money with them?

Do they keep promises, even in small things?

Do they lie, hide things, or act suspiciously?

5. Communication

Can we talk openly about difficult issues without fear or hostility?

Do they listen when I speak, or always try to “win” arguments?

Do they shut down, shout, or manipulate instead of resolving conflict?

6. Life Goals and Vision

Do we agree about children (number, parenting style, values to raise them with)?

Do we have similar financial goals (saving, spending, investments)?

Do our career ambitions align, or will they cause conflict later?

Do we want the same lifestyle (city vs. village, travel, social life)?

7. Attraction and Compatibility

Am I genuinely attracted to them (not just physically, but emotionally and mentally)?

Do I feel at peace and happy in their presence?

Do we enjoy spending time together, or do I feel drained?

8. Support and Encouragement

Do they support my dreams and growth, or do they belittle them?

Can I count on them in times of sickness, loss, or failure?

Do they celebrate my successes with me, or compete/compare?

9. Family and Social Relationships

How do they treat their parents, siblings, and friends?

Are they respectful to elders and kind to children?

Are they overly dependent on family/friends in decision-making?

10. Financial Responsibility

Do they budget, save, and spend wisely?

Are they open about money matters, or secretive?

Do they carry unnecessary debts or gambling habits?

Can we plan and manage money together without constant fights?

✅ Final Reflection Questions

Do I feel safe, respected, and valued with this person?

Does this person bring out the best in me, or the worst?

If this person never changes, can I live happily with them for life?

👉 The truth: Love is important, but not enough by itself. A life partner should be someone you can trust, respect, and grow with, even through difficulties.

WHAT ARE THE FACTORS TO CONSIDER IJ CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER - I. D. Samuel PhD

Choosing a life partner is one of the biggest decisions anyone can make, and it requires wisdom, patience, and self-awareness. 

Here are 10  key things to look out for when choosing a life partner, with explanations and examples:

1. Shared Values and Beliefs

Why: Looks and feelings may fade, but values (faith, honesty, family, money, integrity) shape how you live together long-term.

Example: If one person values honesty but the other doesn’t mind lying, trust issues will constantly arise.

2. Emotional Maturity

Why: A partner should be able to manage anger, disappointment, and stress without becoming abusive, sulky, or avoidant. Emotional maturity shows readiness for marriage.

Example: Someone who apologizes when wrong and learns from mistakes is more reliable than someone who always blames others.

3. Respect and Kindness

Why: Love without respect becomes toxic. A good partner values your opinions, treats you with dignity, and shows kindness even during disagreements.

Example: A person who mocks you in public or constantly belittles your dreams is not suitable for a healthy partnership.

4. Trustworthiness

Why: Without trust, there will be suspicion, jealousy, and insecurity. A life partner should be dependable and consistent in words and actions.

Example: If someone often breaks promises or hides things, that’s a red flag.

5. Good Communication Skills

Why: A healthy partner should be able to express feelings honestly, listen attentively, and resolve conflicts respectfully.

Example: Instead of shutting down or shouting, a good partner says, “I feel hurt when you do this” and listens to your response.

6. Shared Life Goals

Why: Two people must generally agree on important things like children, finances, career ambitions, and lifestyle. Otherwise, future conflicts are inevitable.

Example: If you want three children but your partner never wants kids, the relationship will strain no matter the love.

7. Attraction and Compatibility

Why: Emotional, intellectual, and physical attraction matters. You don’t need perfection, but there must be genuine connection and chemistry.

Example: You should enjoy spending time together and not feel drained in their presence.

8. Supportive and Encouraging Nature

Why: A good partner helps you grow, celebrates your wins, and stands by you during struggles.

Example: If you start a small business, a supportive partner encourages you instead of mocking your efforts.

9. Healthy Family and Social Relationships

Why: How someone treats family, friends, and even strangers shows their true character. Also, marriage often involves extended family.

Example: Someone who is respectful to their parents and courteous to waiters is more likely to treat you well too.

10. Financial Responsibility

Why: Money issues are one of the top causes of marital conflict. A life partner doesn’t need to be rich, but they should be disciplined and transparent with money.

Example: A partner who constantly borrows and wastes money without accountability may bring future hardship.

✅ In summary: Choose someone who is mature, respectful, trustworthy, shares your values, communicates well, supports your growth, and has compatible life goals.

7 REASONS WHY MOST RELATIONSHIPS DON'T LAST, AND EVEN MARRIAGES. BY DR. I. D. SAMUEL

 

7 REASONS WHY MOAT RELATIONSHIPS DON'T LAST, AND EVEN MARRIAGES. BY DR. I. D. SAMUEL 

let me expand each reason with some detail and real-life-like examples so it’s clearer why most relationships don’t last:

1. Poor Communication

Explanation: Healthy relationships thrive on openness and honesty. When partners fail to express feelings, listen actively, or clarify misunderstandings, small issues grow into major problems. Silence, assumptions, or harsh words create distance.

Example: A woman feels neglected because her partner works long hours, but instead of telling him, she grows resentful. He assumes she understands he’s working for their future. Over time, they both feel unappreciated and emotionally disconnected.

2. Lack of Trust

Explanation: Trust is the backbone of intimacy. Without it, insecurity and suspicion dominate the relationship. Once broken (through lies, cheating, or repeated disappointments), it’s very difficult to rebuild.

Example: A man catches his partner texting someone secretly late at night. Even though she insists it was harmless, doubt sets in. From then on, every time her phone buzzes, he wonders who it is. The suspicion eventually destroys the peace of the relationship.

3. Unrealistic Expectations

Explanation: Many people enter relationships expecting their partner to “fix” their loneliness, always make them happy, or never change. But no one can meet every emotional or personal need. Disappointment sets in when reality doesn’t match the fantasy.

Example: A woman believes marriage will end her feelings of emptiness. After a few months, she realizes her partner cannot fulfill her every emotional gap, and she grows bitter, thinking the relationship has failed — when the real issue is unmet unrealistic expectations.

4. Neglect of Effort

Explanation: Relationships are like gardens — they die if neglected. Consistent love, attention, and quality time are needed. When partners stop dating each other, stop complimenting, or stop showing interest, the bond weakens.

Example: At first, a man surprises his partner with kind gestures, late-night talks, and dates. After some months, he stops trying, thinking “she already knows I love her.” She begins to feel invisible and unloved, leading to emotional withdrawal.

5. Different Values or Life Goals

Explanation: Love alone isn’t always enough. If two people have opposite priorities, faith practices, or visions for the future, clashes will arise. Without compromise, differences become walls.

Example: One partner dreams of moving abroad for career growth, while the other insists on staying close to family. Neither is wrong, but the conflicting life goals create a deadlock that love alone cannot fix.

6. Poor Conflict Resolution

Explanation: Disagreements are normal, but how couples handle them determines survival. Constant yelling, blame, or avoidance leads to resentment. Healthy couples fight fairly and resolve issues; unhealthy ones let problems pile up.

Example: Instead of calmly discussing finances, a couple argues every time money is mentioned. They attack each other’s character (“You’re irresponsible!”) instead of solving the problem. Over time, both avoid the topic altogether, and financial stress ruins the bond.

7. Emotional Immaturity

Explanation: Immature partners may be selfish, easily offended, or unable to regulate their emotions. They often prioritize winning arguments over understanding, or pleasure over commitment.

Example: A boyfriend storms out every time his girlfriend raises a concern. Instead of listening, he sulks or blames her. She eventually feels like she’s dating a child rather than an equal partner and leaves.

✨ In short: Most relationships fail not because love wasn’t present at the beginning, but because love wasn’t maintained with trust, communication, effort, and maturity.

WHY DO WOMEN SLEEP WITH THEIR PASTORS? (THE CAPTIVITY OF NEGATIVITY)

An Outcry Against Spiritual Prostitution in the Church

"Thou art the man!" – 2 Samuel 12:7

“Judgment must begin at the house of God.” – 1 Peter 4:17

INTRODUCTION

A storm is brewing in the house of God — not from outside, but from within the altar. The sacred place has become a market of lust, and the pulpit a platform for perversion. A question that should not exist among God’s people now demands attention:

Why are women shamelessly sleeping with their pastors?

This is not a mistake — it is sin in its boldest form, a defilement of the holy, and a mockery of Christ’s blood. Let us tear the veil of secrecy and expose this rotten evil festering in the so-called “churches” today.

1. IGNORANCE: THE FIRST GATEWAY TO DEFILEMENT

Women who do not know the Word of God become easy meat for devils in suits. They are spiritually empty, shallow in discernment, and gullible before evil men who parade as pastors.

Hosea 4:6 is ringing loud today: “My people perish for lack of knowledge.”

A woman who knows her Bible and walks in the Spirit will never be found on a pastor’s bed of sin.

2. IDOLISING PASTORS ABOVE GOD

Some women treat their pastor as god, father, miracle worker, and lover — all in one. They confide in him, cry to him, lean on him, and eventually lie with him.

This is not love — it is spiritual whoredom.

God never asked you to sleep with your helper. When you place man above God, don’t be shocked when you fall into his bed.

“Cursed is the man who trusts in man…” – Jeremiah 17:5

3. LUST: THE SIN NO ONE WANTS TO NAME

Let’s call it what it is. Some women are lustful, seductive, and full of flesh. They walk into church looking for “powerful men” to sleep with. They dress like Delilah and dance around the pulpit like Jezebel. These are not sheep — they are serpents in skirts.

Likewise, pastors with no fear of God are filled with uncontrolled lust. They preach holiness, but sleep with three choir members and two ushers before Sunday service.

This is not weakness. This is wickedness.

4. MANIPULATION BY DEMONIC "PROPHETS"

Today, Satan wears a collar and speaks in tongues.

Some so-called pastors tell women:

“You need spiritual cleansing through intimacy.”

“The Lord told me you are my divine wife.”

“Sleep with me and your womb will open.”

This is not prophecy — it is witchcraft, perversion, and rape wrapped in scripture.

These “men of God” are agents of Lucifer, and every woman who obeys them is sleeping with a devil, not a deliverer.

5. SPIRITUAL GREED: EXCHANGING SEX FOR BLESSINGS

Let’s not pretend. Some women sleep their way to promotion, miracle, or marital prophecy. They are ready to drop their dignity for a fake blessing.

But here’s the truth:

What you got through sin will become your curse.

You cannot sow in the flesh and reap in the Spirit (Galatians 6:7-8). What you gained through your body, you will lose through shame.

6. PASTORS WHO ARE SONS OF HELL

Jesus said it best:

“Woe to you, hypocrites… you make them twice the sons of hell as yourselves.” – Matthew 23:15

There are men today who stand on the altar but sleep in beds soaked with sin. They lay hands on women in the day and lay with them at night. They call it “counselling” — but it is carnal, corrupt, and cursed.

These men have no fear of God. They have turned the church into a spiritual brothel, and their judgment is coming swiftly.

7. DANGEROUS SOUL TIES AND CURSES

Sex is not just physical. It is spiritual. When a woman sleeps with her pastor, she forms a soul tie with a corrupt spirit. Her dreams become polluted. Her destiny is attacked. Her spirit is bound.

Many women today are suffering barrenness, delay, mental oppression, and confusion — not because of witches, but because they slept with the serpent at the altar.

You didn’t sleep with a pastor — you slept with a curse.

GOD IS ANGRY: JUDGMENT IS NEAR

“Be not deceived. God is not mocked.” – Galatians 6:7

“Their judgment lingereth not.” – 2 Peter 2:3

This is not the time for sugar-coated sermons. This is the hour for repentance or ruin.

To every woman:

Who has opened her body to the pastor, REPENT NOW.

Who is still flirting with spiritual leaders, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE.

Who thinks it’s love, it’s a lie of the devil.

To every pastor:

Who sleeps with the sheep, your judgment will be double.

Who manipulates women for sex, you will burn unless you repent.

Who preaches holiness and lives in filth, God is coming for you.

CLEANSE THE CHURCH OR FACE GOD'S WRATH

This article is not for entertainment — it is a trumpet blast to wake the sleeping and warn the wicked. The church must be purged. The pulpit must be restored. The people must stop idolizing man.

 “Come out from among them, and be ye separate,” saith the Lord. – 2 Corinthians 6:17

No more silence. No more compromise.

Expose evil. Preach truth. Live holy.

Because heaven is real. Hell is real. And the time is short.

If Jesus return, will he still find faith ?

In-Christ-Service, 

I. D. Samuel PhD